Bi's wish to see her daughter comes true!
Bi grew up in a large family with a lot of siblings. Her family raised and sold goats for a living. Even though they were not well off, she was very loved in her family. She always wanted a large family of her own when she grew up.
Unfortunately, she couldn't bear children. This news devastated her and she fell into depression. To help her overcome depression, her siblings let her raise their children. Her husband earned a meager income but was happy to support her in raising the children. Over time, the children got married and her husband passed away. The marriage of the children and the death of her husband hit Bi with loneliness.
Bi, then started raising and selling goats for earning her livelihood. However, one goat changed Bi's life. She instantly connected with her. Bi named her Sita. Sita showed a lot of human emotions and they both grew very fond of each other.
One day Bi noticed a lump on her breast. Further tests confirmed that she was in an advanced stage of breast cancer. Afraid of the cost and suspicious of hospitals, Bi denied treatment.
It was then that a relative referred her to Karunashraya. She visited Karunashraya and agreed to get admitted as she felt cared for by the staff. In no time Bi became one of the favorite patients of the doctors, counselors and nursing staff.
While they cared well for her, Bi was always concerned about Sita. Her niece had informed her that Sita was unwell and depressed. Bi insisted on going home to visit the goat who had now become her daughter. But Bi's condition had deteriorated and she couldn't be sent home.
And so began the long journey of bringing Sita to the hospital to fulfil Bi's last wish.
The staff at Karunashraya made all efforts to bring Sita to the place. Sita, unfamiliar with the sound and feel of vehicles and would keep trying jump out of the vehicles. After three days of failed attempts, the staff managed to bring Sita to the hospital on a two-wheeler!
Karunashraya had seen many reunions and wishes being fulfilled but a wish in the form of a goat was new. All the staff followed Sita to Bi's ward and the whole place was lit with smiles and tears of joy.
Sita was surprisingly disciplined. She walked along one side of the corridor and seemed calm and composed. On meeting Bi, she turned her face away and refused to look up at her. It was as if she was annoyed with Bi for staying away from her for over 6 months. She relented only when an overwhelmed Bi picked her up and placed her on her lap. A happy Sita peacefully dozed off on her lap.
The goat slept in Bi's lap like it had finally reached home after a long journey. Bi spent the whole day with her relatives and Sita and looked like she couldn't have asked for more.
A few days later, Bi bid goodbye to the world knowing Sita was in good hands.
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About The Program
What the beneficiary gets
The 73 bed Inpatient facility of Karunashraya at Marathahalli, Bangalore, provides free professional palliative care for advanced stage cancer patients irrespective of caste, creed, religion, age and socio economic backgrounds. This care includes free food and bed, medical care and counseling support.
Over 70% of the patients are from lower socio economic backgrounds.
Donations to this program covers a part of doctors' salaries who attend to the patients, which is their largest expense.
One of the biggest aspects of palliative care is the control of pain and distressing symptoms. Each patient who is entrusted to their care therefore needs a special care option to be designed for them.
The doctors go on rounds everyday to monitor the patients' condition and design the best action plan for their medical treatment.
The hospice provides this care completely free of charge ensuring that the patient is in peace, pain-free, in comfort and with the best quality of life possible.
The holistic inpatient care team, which includes a nurse, a counselor and a doctor, visits homes of these patients to provide necessary care - ranging from wound dressing, restocking medicines, changing catheters. Ryles tube, as well as bathing and counseling patients and their families.
A follow up on the patients after the discharge through is also done through Karunashraya's Home Care team.
When you donate to this program you help poor terminally ill patients get access to medical care they deserve during their last days.
About The NGO
19 November, 2019
Patients receiving the care and support
Patients receiving the care and support
22 July, 2019
We are able to provide holistic care with the help of a team of well trained and competent doctor, counsellors, physiotherapist and nursing staff. Our doctors will visit each patient daily along with support nurses and counsellor and review their charts and symptoms for medication and appropriate adjustment of medication. Our Nurses and nursing aides will take care of their physical hygiene and provide feeding support as required. Total In-Patents From Jan to March is 339. Total Home care patients is 307. NUMBER OF HOURS WORKED BY EMPLOYEES FROM JAN’19 TO MAR’19 : DOCTORS CARE- 2844 Hrs, NURSING CARE- 43720 Hrs, COUNSELLING - 3748 Hrs, ADMIN Staffs- 27700 Hrs.
Story from the field
Name: Ayesha Parvin Age: 38 years Sex: Female Counsellor: Sundari Ayesha had two children- a daughter and a son, both MBAs. She was a painter and a vivacious person. However, ever since being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, she was quite down. She had a love marriage and had converted to Islam in order to do so. Luckily her family did not abandon her because of this. When she came to Karunashraya, she was shocked and disturbed to see scars and wounds of other patients. Since she had pancreatic cancer, she was not familiar with such outwardly physical wounds. Her initial treatment used to involve chemotherapy but she would never see other patients and would leave the hospital without interacting with them. At Karunashraya, this was different. She would attend Diversion activities in the Activity Room and be very conscious of other people’s wounds. She would be very introverted and would not like to participate in art and craft activities – would make excuses saying her hand was paining etc. She told Sundari that she did not know that cancer could manifest in this outwardly physical way and that she did not like coming to the activity room because of it. Despite this, Ayesha would always have suggestions about the art activities and would always give artistic suggestions. One day, Sundari gave her a coloring book with materials and told her to work on it at home, since she did not like the Activity room. Ayesha was most pleased and took this up very seriously. She worked excitedly all night and came to the Activity room the next day with a beautiful sketch copied from a book of rhymes. This is now pasted on the wall of the Activity room. In fact, a generous donor has decided to fund the framing of her artwork. She had not disclosed until then that she was a painter! It came about one day organically while Sundari was chatting informally with Ayesha’s son – who works on face detection – and was pleasantly surprised by this information. The Activity room brought out Ayesha’s passion and zest for life. She began to uplift other patient’s spirits by bringing them out of the ward and making them walk and chat and enjoy life. She had accepted the cancer she had and wanted to live a life that was comfortable and happy. The ward was always cheerful when she was around. She liked the view from the ward because she could see the fountains and also watch her husband going and coming. Ayesha’s wish was to not die a painful death. She wanted to have minimum pain towards the end and a degree of dignity for her life. And this was fulfilled because she passed away in her sleep very peacefully one morning. Her family had come to visit her the previous evening and when they heard the news, they were very happy that she did not have pain towards the end. Her family is still in touch with Karunashraya. Her daughter remembered her mother in a touching post on social media, in which she wrote about her mother’s zest for life. This is what Ayesha wanted. She wanted for people to remember her that way not as a patient in pain. She had managed to bring up to happy, independent, and successful children.
|What is the expected total number of beneficiaries in this program for FY18-19?||1500|
|What is the number of beneficiaries/ benefits provided in this program, Year-To-Date||6000|
|Village/City/State where project is located||Bangalore / Karnataka|
|Total Budget for the project for FY18-19||66389032|
|Total Expenses for the project YTD||58340835|